Have you ever seen the magic transformation that occurs when a child puts on a “cowboy” hat or your scarf becomes a superhero cape?

While it is lots of fun, playing dress up also helps a child’s development. Let’s take a look at why children do it, how they learn and how you can easily encourage this play at home or school.

What Does It Mean to Play Dress Up?

Dress up play – a type of fantasy play – happens when a child dresses up with the intention of acting out a role or life situation, through play.

Dress up clothing can include any clothing or props, whether large or child-sized, as long as the intention is to be someone or something else, for example, a grown up, a fireman, a lion, a mother, a baby or a teacher.

Children are limited by imagination only in what they can pretend to be.

Why Do Children Play Dress Up?

During dress-up play, children are able to become what they cannot become yet (or ever – in the case of a lion) in real life. 

By putting on props or items of clothing that represent others, they are able to make some sense of their world by acting out the realities they see and experience around them.

Since children spontaneously engage in this type of play, often without prompting, it shows that they are naturally inclined to try and figure out people and roles, by turning into them for a while.

Dressing up while playing provides solutions to problems that children might be trying to make sense of internally. 

While they work through and process troubling situations – often by repeating the scenarios – it tends to dilute the seriousness of them and make them more manageable for children to deal with.

Children also express their positive emotions or curiosity about the future, even if they’re unrealistic, such as when pretending to be a grown-up going to work, or looking after a baby.

The Benefits of Playing Dress Up in Early Childhood

Children learn many things during dress-up play, as they do with all types of play, especially with regard to their emotional and social development.

These are just some of the reasons why dress-up is important:

Emotional Skills

During dress-up play, children imitate what they see around them and replicate it. They try to make sense of real-life situations as they expand their play in new directions and act out various scenarios.

This allows children to fully experience all emotions, even strong ones like fear or sorrow, by feeling them in a safe, non-threatening space.

Only emotions that are expressed and felt can be dealt with and accepted. This makes this type of play crucial for progressing through the stages of emotional development.

Children pretend to be grown-ups arguing, a doctor dealing with a high-pressure situation, or a distressed baby who needs comforting. They might even take on a new gender.

If children are dealing with their own specific problems – such as being disciplined, or the arrival of a new sibling – they can sort out their own feelings about these issues.

As they try out all these roles, their sense of self-identity grows.

Social Skills

While children sometimes engage in dress-up play independently, they often play together with other children, making it a great way for them to work on their people skills. 

This type of play develops high-level social skills, such as:

• Developing conversational skills such as listening and maintaining eye contact.

• Learning to take turns and share.

• Learning to work cooperatively towards a common goal.

• Negotiating with others as different roles are assigned and clothes and props are shared.

• Respecting the decisions and following the rules that were agreed upon by the group.

• Asserting their own views and persuading others to their opinions.

• Being tolerant of others’ needs and seeing things from their point of view.

Cognitive Skills

Though dress-up play has a huge positive impact on social and emotional skills, children are also building cognitive skills at the same time.

• As they role-play with others they are developing their vocabulary and expressive language.

• Learning to substitute items and use them as symbols for playing out a reality (such as using a scarf or sheet to make a cape) exercises the intellect.

• As children play out different roles in their “disguises,” they practice thinking skills, decision making and problem solving, among other skills.

source:empoweredparents.co